Today, we are going to help you figure out if you’re in a toxic relationship. If any of the stuff sounds familiar, then it might be the time to reconsider your priorities. Is your GF behaving in a controlling, possessive, and needlessly jealous way by forbidding you to visit XXX camsites such as AnaCams.com? Are there patterns of disrespect mixed in there as well? Read what AnaCams users say and learn about some of the warning signs of an unhealthy relationship.
Consider Leaving Your Partner If
You’re not being given permission to get better, EVER.
An abusive partner always wants to keep you down. You are not allowed to do better, get better at something, etc. This pattern of abuse can manifest itself through constant, passive-aggressive remarks that are blatantly discouraging. Speaking of which…
You’re always under attack.
When you’re in a toxic relationship you will always be under attack. No matter what you do. Nothing you do is ever good enough for your partner and it’s easier to give up and wallow in your own pain than to reach out. Your partner is always weighing you against their idea of ‘good enough’. They are always right, it’s never their fault, no matter how bad they make you feel. You’re always the problem.
Your own needs are ignored.
No effort is made to meet your needs. You’re not asked what you need. It’s not even noticed that your needs were the only ones that weren’t met. Every time something is withheld from you, it strengthens your belief that you’re not worthy of asking or receiving.
You’re second-guessing your every move.
Because you’re always under attack, that is. It’s impossible to deal with such pressure, so you always try to second-guess your moves, afraid of making a mistake that’s going to make your partner mad.
Your boundaries are blurred.
There are a lot of blurred boundaries in toxic relationships. Boundaries as to who does what to whom and who sleeps in whose bed and who spends time with who. We are not going to even discuss how refreshing it’s going to feel to finally meet someone who’s going to appreciate the boundaries that you have set.
You miss the person that you were.
It’s difficult to admit you’re broken. If you open yourself up to the kind of hurt and pain that’s being committed to a person, it will open up to you. It’s impossible to stay in a relationship where you don’t know how to value yourself. You have to know your worth and you have to somehow deal with the fact that you’re no longer you… Because you’re not allowed to be you. The acceptance is the first part of the healing process.
It’s all about fear.
A legitimately toxic relationship is a relationship based on fear. Fear of abandonment, fear of loss, fear of success, fear of rejection, fear of moving forward, fear of losing connection to your loved ones. You don’t have to have these fears in a relationship.